● FREE QUIZ
What's your love language?
A love language quiz identifies which of the five common ways people give and receive love — words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, receiving gifts, or physical touch — matters most to you, based on your answers to a short set of questions.
Question 1 of 6
When your partner wants to make you feel loved, what would mean the most?
How this quiz works
Answer 6 quick questions
Pick the option that feels most true for you in each scenario — there's no wrong answer, just go with your gut reaction.
See your result
Get your primary love language with a plain explanation of what it means and why it resonates with you specifically.
See how to express it in a letter
Each result links to a relevant letter style or occasion so you can put what you just learned into practice.
Want the full guide to all five love languages? Read the complete guide.
Frequently asked questions
What are the 5 love languages?
Words of affirmation (verbal appreciation), quality time (undivided attention), acts of service (helpful actions), receiving gifts (thoughtful gestures), and physical touch (physical closeness) — five common ways people tend to feel most loved.
Can I have more than one love language?
Yes — most people relate to more than one, often with a clear primary and a secondary. This quiz shows your top result based on your answers; if two languages tie, both are shown.
Is this the official 5 Love Languages test?
No — this is an original, shorter quiz written for this site, based on the same widely known five-category concept. It's not affiliated with or a reproduction of any official test.
What do I do with my result?
Use it to be more specific about what actually makes you feel loved — and consider asking your partner to take it too, since knowing each other's love languages can make it easier to show up for each other in ways that land. Each result also links to a relevant way to express it in a letter.